Why do I have such a hard time dating?

Just like you I am in the exact same boat! I (f28) am well educated, love sports, have different hobbies, am fairly good looking, have a great group of friends, cook, travel, am in good shape but yet I keep getting dumped by all the guys. The last one was a couple of nights ago. I thought we were for sure heading down the dating route... we just had a different vibe and I was really into him. Went over a few days ago and wasn’t in the mood to sleep with him (for the first time since I started seeing him) because of anxiety that I was feeling caused by my own person stuff at home. I kid you not, he was so upset said that sex was black and white, you either have it or you don’t and then proceeded to dump me .... I was blindsided. It was awful.

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