There are two main sugar lifestyles that are represented here, and they are fundamentally different. They are characterized by the number of consummated relationships (in a year, say) and the typical length of each relationship.
First group has multiple sugar relationships (say 5+) per year that tend to last weeks to few months.
Second group has few relationships (1 or 2) in a year, and they tend to last more than a year each.
There are more active posters belonging to the first group. The experiences and the opinions of the two groups are sometimes in direct conflict. If you belong to one group or the other, focus on the experiences and opinions of that group. There are of course people in between the two groups, but the contrast between these two groups is the main component.