Need real advice on love and dating!

Really need advice gals and guys!!!

I need some real advice gals and guys!!! I have been seeing a guy who is ethnically completely different from me!! We matched on tinder and started conversing.We do stay quite far from each other but he visits his parents every month which is where I stay. We have been on 2 dates so far and spent a weekend together at his place (when I visited him)! On paper he is the kind of person i was really looking for and really some of his qualities!! We (as in the guy and me) discussed before that we both are at an age where we are looking to marry and have a family with.Towards the end of the weekend we were discussing where we are at and we confessed even though we are very much physically attracted to each other we somehow lack that spark we are looking for. <To give you a bit of a background: i have never had a long term relationship ever! And so to my previous situations i have unfortunately been involved in relationships that involved 3 people.And i have always chased that butterfly feeling in all my flings and hookups or any 3 party affairs.Banking on physical attraction while later realizing how shitty the individuals are to have been cheating on their partners while also recognizing how wrong i am to be involved in this situation.So i have had to work through these awful tendencies of mine and recognize my fear of intimacy and commitment in order to really make good choices in terms of whom I choose to date and why.> That brings me to the current predicament! We(the guy and me) decided to continue to see each other as sometimes the spark is there in the beginning and sometimes it takes time to build! So do you guys have any suggestions as to whether i should continue to see him ? If yes i would love to have suggestions as to how to spark a spark!

A girl could really do with some help!! Ps: i have never cheated and don't plan on.