3. Sunday dating thread, for advice and discussion.

Sunday dating thread, for advice and discussion.

I've been frustrated by how shallow online dating seems to be. I wasn't getting very many matches on Bumble/Hinge, but after I let my sister mess with my profile, I've been getting at least 3-4x more, mostly from South Asians, but also a few more white and Hispanic women. All she did was rearrange the photos I was already using and put in my bio that I'm over 6' and in medical school.

I know I should be happy I'm getting so much attention, but I can't help but feel that it's only because of surface factors that have little to do with what my personality is like. I already went through the whole casual sex, hookup thing in college and I found it extremely emotionally draining and unsatisfying. I don't want to do it again but I can't take any of my matches seriously knowing that they are only there because of such shallow features. I know it sounds a little irrational, but I can't help it. /vent

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