Why do Indian/Asian women hate on their own men so much?

I've had a girl tell me straight up at a bar that she doesn't date Indians when my white friend introduced me to her. He then hooked up with her later that night. This guy works a minimum wage job and not that attractive, yet he has been with more women and more diverse women than I have.

I went to the bar again a couple of weeks ago with another white friend who is good looking but also works a minimum wage job. He's had one night stands each time we went to the bars in the past 3 weeks, one happened to be with an Indian girl he tried to wing for me. She ignored me and didn't acknowledge my presence. My friend ended up going home with her that night.

I look in my family and see more white male Indian female couples than the other way around.

I'm not asking for white women to date. I'm asking to have the ability to date regardless of race. I don't see why race is such a big issue to women and such a trivial issue to me.

I also hear my white friends say "dude you just need some game".

I can hold a conversation, I'm almost making 6 figures, maxing out my 401k and Roth IRA, saved up a good amount of emergency money, dress well, have fun hobbies, relatively attractive... Yet my white friends date with no effort.

I look at the minorities in my group and they have only dated a few girls of the same race or been in a long term relationship with the same girl because they know it's a rough world out there in dating and they need to hold onto whatever they can get.

Then I look at my white friends and they absolutely slay like it's their job. If they want a relationship, they can get it. If they want a hookup, they can get it.