Is it supposed to be special

You're not a lost cause. I had a male problem with sex a long time ago. I was only 21 at the time. Girlfriend had cheated on me and it was really brutal and cruel. I'm not a bad looking guy, I could chat with a girl, and I would get all the way to the bedroom and just nothing. Viagra didn't even work. It was like that for me for almost 2 years. It wasn't until I met my now wife of 15 years and we took it really slow instead of jumping into bed (not wait until marriage slow but I guess maybe 2 months or 3 with her and I got my confidence back and then I was back in the game. Everything just worked again with her and it's been great.

I've never endured what you have had to but maybe if you take it slow and try to just focus on improving yourself (little things and professional goals) and when you can be really honest and open with someone again, I bet you'll have a much more fulfilling sex life.

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