Prior to my wife I dated this girl V for a few years. She was sweet and sexual. We never fought which looking back was actually odd.

I had a 5 year relationship before that and discovered the lifestyle in between. I was a single male for a few couples before I met V.

Eventually I worked up the courage to bring up swinging with V. I explained the whole thing and she was tepidly into trying so I made us a profile.

Milwcouple2622

We had a FMF threesome with a friend and we had some emails with couples. We rented a house together the we were set to move into.

Then one day I didn’t here from her in a while and went to her apartment before work. I had a key. She was in bed with a coworker. Apparently I had triggered a disconnect or excuse to cheat by bringing up swinging.

So that ended and I got a roommate for the house and moved in.

I withdrew from caring about relationships and was fine having sex as a single male or because I was kind of known in town for my band.

When I started dating again I cared far less about being clingy or going all in. I told my girlfriend early that I was fucking couples right before we dated and that I couldn’t be in a relationship where sex with others was off the table. She surprisingly was into that idea and said she was bi. That was 14 years ago.

We actually used Milwcouple2622 profile to start and eventually asked admin to change it to what we are now. Fun fact... We still use the same password I made with V. My way of being reminded that I’m glad it worked out this way.