Taking the Direct Approach

I'm curious what people think. I guess my biggest fear is that she's waiting for something better to come along, or that I check all her boxes and am a "great guy" but she just doesn't find me attractive.

ok, valid if you've already defined the relationship

Me: As a point of clarification, to make sure we're using words and concepts the same way, when I talk about exclusivity, to me this is not a huge commitment or being bf/gf or anything. This just means, to me, that we agree turn off the dating apps, don't date anyone else, and just focus on each other until we decide to either make it official and start a relationship,

She doesn't really owe you that since you're not in a relationship yet. If you're concerned with this then have the talk.

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