And judging from your comment history, you have a history of complaining about women and making mysogonistic comments. I even saw the word “Chad” in one of your comments, a term almost exclusively used by incels, red pillers, and MGTOWs.
You said that men should be bad boys and push women to do things sexually that they don’t want to because it would be better than being a “good guy” and ending up in a sexless relationship. You then told OP to put his own self-interest, his own needs, and his own ego above else to obtain sexual satisfaction. That sounds an awful lot like counseling people to be disrespectful to women and to ignore a lack of enthusiastic consent.