i do have a degree of social awareness about this -- which is why i only talk about my attractions and preferences in a thread that has DIRECTLY to do with the attractions and preferences of women. if a thread was posted in a sub for black or fat women about men who are attracted to women unlike them to explain the reasoning, i would not consider them an asshole no.

when did i say to just get over it? if you go through my history, you can see that i have suggested therapy as the one major way to get over a lot of insecurity and body dysmorphia. i obviously do not suggest just "getting over it". but you seem invested in painting a certain picture of me despite not knowing me.