I didn't say it's men's fault, maybe you're just used to looking for blame?
I said the jokes that are made about it perpetuate it. That's a problem. I then asked for ideas for solutions.
I realized this was posted purely to give everyone here a chance to hate women, but I actually see these victims and I hear them talk about their fears and what paralyzes them. And I know for a fact that the way our culture, and yes men especially, perpetuate this shitty "hot for teacher" joke impacts those survivors and their comfort level reporting and discussing it. Over and over I hear from girls that they think they must have done something to "make" it happen, and from boys that they must have wanted it bc they're supposed to be "lucky" if an older woman wants them. It's a genuine barrier for reporting, and it needs to change.