It is very weird, but it is nature. Young women have been "freed" without any perspective, and this has led to a return to pure patriarchy, ironically, the most fundamental natural sexual hierarchy. This is something more and more young men are learning the hard way these days. Even girls who grow up in a protected environment still want to be ravished by a dominant male, that is their primary sexual fantasy. Whereas for males who grow up in a protected environment, sexuality is usually tamed, and an unnatural and unsatisfying dynamic plays out. The women (as mothers mainly but in all aspects of life) who lobbied for and created the situation that created this dynamic then walk away from all responsibility. I haven't seen one yet who has the strength of person to do that, women are not made for it, and so they fall into their natural place in the new order. In this new order, young women as a resource, a well of power, are mined and used up by the population at large, sleeping with many men without understanding the consequences. These young women start to feel more powerful as they are effectively selling their own submission in exchange for a feeling of being on what in their own minds is the "level" of the men who are using them. Young women and men who have positions of power enter an agreement at the expense of young men especially (who are "not growing up," another aspect of the situation, where people in general are not naturally inclined to see a male's state of being as anything other than his responsibility, even if it is a place he was put because he was instructed and conditioned to put himself there. Young men need the opportunity to feel their natural sense of ownership of their female counterparts, this is a fundamental part of high-functioning community, and unlocks all positive male qualities, and ultimately, direction in life) and society at large. Some men at this point are so demoralized that they are willing to accept the kind of relationship left to them in the end with a used up woman. I'm glad to say this hasn't happened to me. If it's happened to you then you must first learn to stand entirely alone as a man.