he basically was my part time friend when i considered him my best friend. we had known each other since middle school when he was a chubby nerdy boy. In high school he got taller and slimmed down and now everyone wanted to hang out with him. He did drugs and partied it was really annoying bc he would act like he would die for these so called friends when they've only known each other for less than a year and when ever i needed help he would act like i was a burden and he couldnt be bothered. He basically "hid me" from his "cool" friends like he would smoke and hang out with them and then hang out with me. I was his "safe" friend someone he could be himself with which he was kinda immature something he would die before any of his cool friends knew. We didnt really talk in school like i said he had other friends but we would hang out after school or on the weeekedns if he didnt get any better offers. i let this slide bc im not good at making friends i am shy and antisocial so he was basically my only friend and the only "connection" i had with my classmates. but in fall 2013 i stopped talking to him bc i was tired of this part time friendship, i was tired of him being ashamed of me. the last straw was when he decided to go to a three day concert in another city with someone else bc they offered him a free hotel room. we are both college students so i had to save up and pay for my ticket, hotel room, gas, etc we had been to this concert before to see my favorite bAnd ever so it was kinda of special to me that we go together again but i couldnt help feel betrayed? that he choose to go with someone else last minute. i decided enough was enough i was tired of him not talking/hanging out with me for 3 months bc he met other people to hang out with but 3 months later he would comeback bc they had a fallout. I wasnt going to let him be ashamed of me any longer and keep me separate from his social life so i just stopped talking/texting him and its been like that since.