You need to make it more interesting. Tell her you want to have a romantic getaway at a hotel where you order room service and watch shitty movies

Thanks mate. That seems perfect. This is something I was lacking. A guy said I should read the sidebar, and I did it a couple times, but it's difficult to absorb everything. Having someone lay down how the plausible deniability works like this is great.

It also would help if she knew you didn't have oneitis. That you can find others. Be slow to respond over txt just enough for her to get worried, but quick enough so she says "it's all in my head". Also, drop other girls names, let her see you check out other girls, etc.. nothing too overt, but enough where she knows she needs to step it up.

Gotcha. The good thing is I'm really well liked at the dance scene on my city, so I've got a couple girls into me.