You somehow managed to throw a bunch of insults at the guy and not provide even a bit of constructive feedback.

After that whole spiel, what's your suggestion? The status quo that gets women threatened, harmed and even killed?

The world isn't a perfect place, and we should not let perfect be the enemy of good. People being able to choose who they marry and have children with - as opposed to arranged marriages with little to no possibility of divorce, which was the norm just a few decades ago and still is in many places - does have its downsides, and we are facing them.

Besides, one needs to be blind to not see how child support is relevant for this discussion.