I've never heard "evil feminists" being used in that particular argument, just "people" in general.

And, ignoring the evil feminists bit, they're not wrong. A lot of birth controls wouldn't pass modern requirements and I'm sure people would be furious if they were suddenly removed from the shelves. That doesn't make it the fault of the people who'd be angry though, the blame is solely on the producers of said product for not caring about their consumers and aggressively marketing it.

IIRC most of the male versions of the pill don't meet current standards and therefore can't be sold.

Also, if this is about the study I think it is, then atleast one of the participants commited suicide and few others became sterile, which (rightly) prompted them to end the trial early. They weren't being wimps about it.

If female birth control is that bad then we should be demanding better birth control with less side effects, not shaming men.