Ah did you know the guy? Did he say he wanted a nice little burial on top of a hill with a pine tree and little daisies all around?

Probably not.

So it's disrespectful of you to cast judgement without knowing the man or his dying wishes.

He could have been a funny guy, always interested in a joke, the first of the memelords even, this could be his epitaph, "have a laugh, not a cry because I can't believe it's not Butter, well you better because IT'S GRANDPA!".

I know when I die I don't want a funeral, I want to be cremated, turned into a centrepiece for a big party to remember all the cool shit I done and have everyone dance and be happy for the chance to know me, not sook and cry and wear black clothes and gather around a casket and take all the funeral preparations so seriously, that just traumatizes family members FFS, some people never get over organizing their immediate families funeral.

Just burn me up, make me look nice, have a sick party and then toss my ashes into the ocean at a good fishing spot, if you call any of my family disrespectful for following my wishes then you're the asshole.