I wish I had the bottom section, I am a father and it took me an entire year of court, pushing and never giving up to finally see my boys. My ex and I are on okay terms now and I see my boys, I forgive her for what she did but I can never forget. I try not to think about that period because it destroys me. Safe to say I never gave up and I think she finally realised I wasn’t going too. She did the right thing in the end. My heart bleeds for any parent ( especially fathers ) who has to fight just to see their children. Never give up on your children, they need you more than you’ll ever know <3. My bond with my boys is so special and nothing makes me happier when they give me cuddles. ( my boys are 2 ) when I finally saw them for the first time in a year I cried like baby, I felt my heart return to me.