if you don’t toe the line to their behaviour FDS standards for their followers, you’re vulnerable to further abuse from them because they’re so rabidly judgmental and ill-equipped to have any compassion.

I saw a post where a woman went to the sub for support because she had been dating what she thought was a "hvm", and he cheated on her. Instead of offering support and lifting her up, a FDS-er went through her post history, apparently found old comments from the OP that suggested her man wasn't so great, and attacked the OP for failing to meet the FDS standards. Another commenter actually came to OP's defense but of course the attacker claimed she was merely "trying to educate" the OP in all the ways she failed.

Just zero compassion, zero empathy.