Sounds like he is infatuated with you and moving a bit too fast in his head, does not sound like a guy who would suddenly lock you up in his basement dungeon lol, the weed also makes people talk to much and lose their situational awareness, I remember this from when I was younger, If he is otherwise a great guy who treats you well and makes you feel good I see no reason for not getting to know him better, him just being with you (and probably wanting to have sex with you) but not wanting to push to have sex is a very good quality that alot of guys his age do not have, there is something to be said for a guy who really wants to hug and cuddle with you without it just being the path to sex, if the compliments become to much just tell him (in a non-blaming way, preferably while cuddling) let him get to know you aswell.

im a pretty dominant guy in relationships and especially in bed, but its not something I would verbalize early in a relationship, its not a fetish, I enjoy gentle sex and sometimes letting the girl take control aswell, but its just who I am, I also have some subconcious protector mentality, luckily most girls like it, but I never actually think I am "above her" or have any power she does not give me, I dont really want some doll I can push around either, but im a bad match for very dominant women, too much tiresome conflict, I am twice his age and have had longer to figure these things out, I had alot less self-awareness at 20yo.

Obviously if he turns out ot be "too much" or is trying to control you in ways you feel uncomfortable with then you should leave, but ive read nothing saying he is not just a quirky guy who is in love with you. If it feels good, it is good imo.