Ok so I took a look through some of your posts to see if there was anything that stood out
Lesbian dating sucks in general. You can expect to get much less attention from women than dudes, and there are a lot of couples and so on messing up the space
You are pretty, but unless you’re model-level attractive, girls won’t chase you. They’re not socialized to do that honestly. A girl who will make the first move is rare
You’re right that being a conservative will put people off. Gay community is very liberal as you know.
Explicitly seeking a relationship will put some people off as well. It can come across as desperate and puts a lot of pressure on some people. Check your phrasing and see if it’s too much
You seem too focused on dating, especially online. You have tons of posts about it. This can also make you seem desperate, which I get but try to keep it cool. It also seems like you might be exclusively trying to meet girls online, bad call in my opinion
Some of what you’re saying comes across as judgmental and jealous, which also makes you sound insecure and desperate. Saying “I guess only fake girls get dates” sounds a lot like “only assholes get girls” and doesn’t make you seem attractive.
This generation in general is less into dating than previous ones
Since you’re femme, people who just flip through profiles without reading them may not clock you as into women (speaking as another femme)
I hope this helps out. Online dating is a shitshow at times so good luck to you. Take a break when you feel overwhelmed!