Honestly, half these comments disgust me. You're all like "It's tough love calling her fat because she'll be called fat by others in the future", but while putting her down none of you considered to offer some constructive criticism. I could see 3 flairs that maybe did that, but the lot of you joined the bandwagon in calling my innocent 3 year old daughter fat and said she'll die in her teens. Yes, so helpful.

I saw an innocent 3 year old child bonding with her kitten and figured some people needed something wholesome in their lives, but the lot of you can't let sleeping dogs lie. Under my care, my kid gets the best simply because I didn't have the best, but she has another parent involved. What my boyfriend's mom and my mom, even my boyfriend, feed her while I'm not around may contribute to a problem I'm ready to tackle, but all ya'll prefer to say "That fat kid will eat the cat". Shame on all of you.

I can say a lot, but unless I'm willing to break up with my boyfriend and all of a sudden get super defensive of what her grandparents feed her than I'm shit out of luck. I can just show my kid a shit ton of love and teach her she doesn't have to eat whatever she's given - which I try to. Some people don't know better, but since I'm OP it's better to say my kid is fat and she'll die like you know the entire story.

Unbelievable.