Do things get better?

I'm just going to quote some amazing person I ran into recently in another one of these threads. His name is fnordsnord. It will get better, but you have to understand that you have to make yourself better and that is hard.

You can do this friend. We're here if you ever need someone to talk to. Stay strong man.

The first thing to understand it that change is HARD. You are who you are because you are comfortable where you are. You don't say much about what you DO do. But say, you eat potato chips and play console games while sitting on the couch 90% of the time you're not in class. You DO that because it's easy and comfortable, even though you don't like the end result.

If you choose to make changes, understand that they are going to be uncomfortable.

First, give this a read. I don't mean to talk down to you. I realize that this is aimed at guys way younger than you, but it's the clearest introduction to dealing with women I've ever seen. http://theredpillroom.blogspot.com/p/the-red-pill-primer-for-boys.html

Once you've gotten through that, find something you like to do that involves other people.

Women are a subset of people, and Game is something that builds on top of knowing how to deal with people.

It doesn't have to be rich in women. It just need to involve other people. I know you're "naturally shy, introverted and not too outgoing." You're going to have to get past that at least somewhat.

Because people don't come to you. You go to them.

Find something you like to do, at least little physical, where you can meet other people. Square dancing. Indoor rock climbing. Martial arts classes. When you're there, make eye contact, introduce yourself. Make physical contact. Shake hands.

First let's get you socialized. Then we'll worry about getting you laid.

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