Thinking of trying online dating. Please help me with my pics and/or tell me if I'm just wasting my time. Please help me!!

Dude you could definitely get a girl. I wouldn't use the third one. Just know that what you say on your profile is important and that just sending a generic "hi" or "what's up?" Isn't going to get a response. Also, there are a lot of bots so don't get frustrated if a lot of the girls you match with at first aren't real people.

I'm a guy and not a FA, but I know enough about what girls are looking for to say if you can't get a girl, its not because of your looks. Those are good pics. At least I think so. I've had tinder for 3 weeks now and I've already met four girls, had sex with two of them. And honestly, I'd say you're probably more conventionally attractive than me. I need to rely on my wit and charm to get the girls I have. But I've been working on that a lot, so don't judge my experience as typical. If anything, I'd say I'm certainly more successful than he average guy, despite having the average guy looks.

Also, if you struggle with girls, start with really low standards. I don't mean to be rude, but starting with much less attractive girls will be helpful because they won't be as hard to game, and you can practice getting better skills of interacting with females with them. Honestly, they may be more insecure than you.

If you need help learning how to talk to them, you can PM me and I'll give more advice. Honestly, you're asking the wrong subreddit for advice on online dating lol try r/tinder or r/seduction. But I will tell you a lot of the tinder girls can be mean and judgmental. That's just how it is. So try to separate yourself or self-esteem from your tinder performance. The less fucks you give, the better you'll do. The girls are out there and they want guys like you. I promise

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