Thoughts?

I get what you're trying to say, but I have to politefully disagree. From what I've seen, AMWF can be built on fetish and self-hate just as WMAF can.

Lengthy post on my experience with AMWF

There was this AMWF community I came across, got to know a bunch of the members. Many of the white females fetishized Asian culture hardcore (mainly Korean/Japanese pop culture.) Majority of them stated that they would only date Asian males. Now, it's fine if that's their preference... But while being a hardcore weeaboo/koreaboo, they would also commonly use racial slurs such as gook, chink, and slanty eyes.

That really confused me, how the WF would call an AM "oppa" or "senpai", then later offhandedly say gook/chink. It's not like they said it once, but it was constantly said among WFs. Eventually, I called them out on it, how it wasn't okay to use racial slurs but they would mockingly reply "THAT'S LACIST" so after a few attempts I just gave up.

I started asking the AM what brought them to the community. A lot of them were just looking to meet women, and majority of them said they would date women of all races. There were also some that grew up in a predominantly white community, and were the only Asians in their school or town. They said that since they are only familiar interacting with white people, they're more comfortable dating white people.

There were a chunk of men that hate whatever Asian culture they were raised with, so they chose to date white women. Then there's AM who exclusively date WF because that's what they only want.

Just wanted to put my experience with AMWF. Even though it's not as widespread as WMAF, there's still things that should be discussed and made aware about it.

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