not because i'm in my 20s listening to kpop it means i'm some sort of sexualizing freak. i'm here to listen to the music, that's it. younger fans can't grasp the fact that liking a group =/= wanting to sleep with the members. i guess it's because they are attracted to the idols themselves but that's not the case for most people.

i got into kpop when i was 14, i was heavy in "stan culture" and not even then i was posting some on the sexual stuff about the groups i liked. i have seen many younger fans being disrespectful and cross more boundaries than older fans themselves, so i don't think it's an age thing, it's just easier to blame older people when it's the kids running their mouths bc of the hormones and being confused as to where that attraction will go once they stop being a teen.

the important part is: just don't sexualize the kids, period.