3. TIFU by going over to "cuddle" with a girl I met through Tinder. (NSFW)

TIFU by going over to "cuddle" with a girl I met through Tinder. (NSFW)

Again, why is this all a problem to you? Do you feel insecure? I've found that most people that are worried about their partners activities are insecure in their own.

Seriously, I don't know you but you are PROBABLY more awesome than you think you are. Ok...you might be an asshole, but in my time, even assholes are assholes because they are insecure and if they stop doing it, they actually are great people. Stop being insecure. Your worth has nothing to do with anyone else, or the past that you can't change. Live in the present.

Everyone IS different. However, losing your cool because someone brings up what they did with THEIR GIRLFRIEND AT THE TIME? They own that time, you own yours. If it were a friend doing it, and they didn't respect that I asked them not to talk to me about it...they wouldn't be a friend any more. Someone I don't know? Why the fuck would I care. If the dude abused her? Yeah, I'd consider beating the shit out of them, but if they just had a relationship? Nah. There is NOTHING in a normal relationship that could make me mad. Its like years ago a friend started to date (and eventually married) a girl that had dated black guys. This was a hillbilly town and people said shitty things about the fact that she dated black guys...and it honestly bothered my friend too. it wasn't my fight, but someone said something in front of the two of us, and I spoke up and said "You know what, I've dated black girls, and if they are anything like black guys...(friend's name) has got to be packing heat if she is just as satisfied with him as she would a black guy". It pretty much diffused the conversation.

The fact that someone dating someone in the past has ANYTHING to do with your relationship today? Wow. It doesn't. Unless you are insecure with yourself. You don't seem like someone that is insecure except maybe this issue, so stop being insecure about this. You have a girl that's loved you of 7 years, you got to be doing SOMETHING right.

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