If my husband (who I’ve been with for 24 years btw, I’m far from a teen girl) sent nudes to his dr accidentally, I’d laugh my ass off, then give him a hug

You're not lying to me. You're lying to yourself

You know very well that if your hypotetical husband sent his dick to his dentist, just after complimenting her, saying "this is for you", you wouldn't give him a hug.

You're just deluding yourself.

Every relationship therapist out there would tell you the same.

Lmao reddit therapists? Because you don't get a degree for posting in /r/relationships

It is normal where she is to message drs on WhatsApp, as 1000 people in this thread would tell you.

Normal people don't tell their docs they "look nice and younger" and then send them nudes.