I am from the middle East and posted in NY. It was my first time interaction with a first generation Asian. She was at this teriyaki chicken stall in a food court.
My turn came, I walked up and asked for the $6 special. She furiously typed it in the register and asked me, Fie lie O Wie Lei.
I didn't know how to answer that and so I politely asked, pardon? She got a bit agitated and again said Fie lie O Wie lie?!
Now I came under pressure because the line was getting long and I was holding up a very angry and hungry crowd.
The Asian lady standing behind me came beside me, pointed towards a section of the menu on the wall and shouted FIE LIE OR WIE LIE!!
The lady was asking if I wanted Fried Rice or White Rice.