No matter how stupid it sounds, i think it's badly phrased and somehow has a half-assed valid point.
She's not saying that "rape is ok and shaming is not", you gotta be as dumb as her to believe that.
Of course rapists are pieces of shit. But would rape be so widespread if other pieces of shit weren't normalizing it, justifying it, excusing it, blaming the victims?
And OF COURSE, shaming a victim is technically not worse than raping, i can't agree with that. But from a extremely pragmatic standpoint, shaming and justifying is one of the reasons why there are so many rapes. If so many people weren't minimising rape, there would be less victims.