You have been trained to be feminine and an emotional tampon. These traits were instilled in you by TV, movies, media, the internet, other people including your parents. The majority of people like teachers that influenced your life at a young age were female. Do you really think the need gets the hot chick like in the movies? Do you really think the disney fairytale ending will happen anyone? Do you believe there is a "one" for you? It's all bollox brother. You have been lied to all your life!
Women sense these traits in you and because of that you are treated differently. Women are attracted to masculine men, not emotional men.
Once they pick up on an emotional man it actually disgusts them and they will automatically treat you like a creep or an emotional tampon like "Let's be friends"
Attractive masculine men dont get called creeps or women dont act like bitches around them because they know this man has options and can replace them instantly with attractive alternative. Go read "The Rational Male" by Rollo Tomassi I'm not calling you a bitch to hurt you, you are acting like you were taught, which is to act like a bitch. If you already work out and take care of yourself then all is left is your mind!