Tinder chick coming on really strong, I could use some advice.

that-freaking-guy is absolutely right, but I would like to expand on what he said. I'm going to give you some sex tips that I know of and that have worked out tremendously for me. But first and most importantly, GO SLOW! Don't just rush in, make out, rip her clothes off and immediately start pounding. Work up to it.

Below I have a list of things that can help you when the time comes. This is advice I've picked up over the years, mainly from girls and what they want.

The thing that really gets her ready is the foreplay. Make out for awhile, kiss her neck (nibble a bit but be delicate), stroke her breasts and feel her up with the clothes still on. She'll give you the go ahead when she's ready for clothes to come off. Again, GO SLOW. Play with the clit while you nibble on her neck. Same with the tits. If she's okay with it you can go down on her.

Listen, you can satisfy a girl orally so don't freak out too much about having to do it with sex. Another important note, don't be afraid to ask her what she wants. Most girls prefer that you ask what they want instead of just trying to figure it out. Again, go slow, don't go diving in there like you're starving and haven't eaten in days. Tease her, kiss the inside of her thighs, work you're way down. Kiss her around the vagina before you start at the clit. The clit is the trigger point. Kiss and lick the clit, but do it softly. Use your other hand to play with her tits. After a little while put your finger in her. Make sure your nails are cut. After a little bit of teasing put in two. Go with the rythm of her body, you'll be able to feel it so don't worry. Girls prefer girth over length. And if you really want to drive her crazy, put in a third. When she goes wild hold on until you make her cum, and you can tell.

When you do put your dick inside of her go slow. Liek that-freaking-guy said, it's not porn. You will get tired, you will cramp, you will feel the urge to cum quickly. Go slow and make sure you ask what she likes. You might cum quickly, you might not. Either way enjoy. Hope these help

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