And like I have replied to 10s of the other women/attractive men before you, it's not the attitude that shows up on my dating profile its my face. And you don't need to be patronising, while I meant it when I said I'd trade for one of my friends' lives, I didn't mean for a partner, I meant their general life. People treat you better, you don't have to work as hard to do anything in life. If you go through my post history you'll also see me linking a guy's profile - same as me, he gets less attention, but has a good attitude. And way more professional photos. Well guess what, his positive attitude got him nowhere either. Because it's not your attitude that counts. In a few days time I'll probably type this comment out word for word to someone else, when they try to tell me its totally my attitude that's holding me back and not my face.