Tinder is hard on good men

But I am pretty sure (I mean.. experience duh) if somebody gives at least little effort into their profile you will get some matches over time and that's all you need

Exactly. It isn’t rocket science, and capitalism isn’t out to sabotage your love life. Keep your bio short and positive, and include three things that you genuinely enjoy doing. Then only use photos that make it seem like you have good hygiene and don’t live in a gaming cave.

I haven’t used tinder in 4 years (because I met my fiancé) but I used to swipe left on anyone who had a bio that included anything negative about other people, or any “woe is me” lines.

“Us good guys never get any matches” swipe left

“My ex is crazy and never lets me see my kids” swipe left

“I just want a natural nice girl who isn’t fake and self-centered” swipe left

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