Met a girl and she was extremely nice. She admitted she "only did it cause her friends told her to", but things ended up working out. She worked shift work, so it was rough seeing each other at times.
On her time off, she'd call and make plans and then back out. I always seemed to get the first made plan with her but if anything came up she'd tell me and i'd say its ok, do what she needed to. I didn't really even care much about it. Then one day starting at 8am she called me to say she was coming over to make breakfast and stay with me all day. She then called at 8:15 and said she was gonna go home and change and be over instead for lunch. Then at 11 she called and said her little sister had volleyball games from 11-2 and she wanted to go. I said no problem, go spend time with your sister. She calls me at about 2:30 and says we can do dinner. At 5 she calls and says she just found an apartment and needs to go see it, we'll just do dinner and a movie afterwards. At 6:30 she calls and says they are running late and we're doing just hte movie at 8. At 7:45 she calls and says shes tired and needs to skip the movie and that shes tired of always disappointing me and maybe we shouldn't see each other.
Mind you, all i've said at this point was "No problem, take care of what you need to do" about everything. I was upset that she put the blame on me that "i'm disappointed", which I was not. She made every plan and broke them, but I was ok for seeing her for 5 minutes if thats all we got.
So we stop talking for a couple weeks, then she messages me and tells me she misses me and she'll try harder. We see each other for a week and then she says she has a womans retreat she is going to. She comes back from the retreat after 4 days and tells me that she was told to find a man who appreciates god as much as he appreciates her and that's the kind of man to marry. Me being the godless heathen I am, of course was told that she couldn't move forward with me at all because any man who didn't believe in god couldn't respect a marriage.
Not a single date I guess, but thats my Tinder experience.