Yeah I hate this as well. They keep spitting out kids and then complaining they have no time. Maybe just fucking stop?????

You know what gets on my nerves the most, possibly because my family did this, is when they expect the oldest to look after the rest. What an insanely selfish thing to do. When i was 9 I had to help raise a baby. That meant no seeing my friends no going out nothing. Just looking after my brother because "were tired from work" or "were going to work". Why the fuck did you have a baby when you cant even look after me? "Its your job!! Hes your brother hes family!". Oh and i also begged them for a dog my entire childhood and was told no because I wont look after it. The fucking nerve I swear...