no more hair color, no more nail tips, no more pedicures, eyebrow waxes, a full make up routine every morning, excess hair removal, skincare routine, none of that.

I do none of that. Natural hair color, short natural nails, no eyebrow effort, no makeup ever, and the only hair I remove is my armpits because I'm personally grossed out by armpit hair. I shower nightly, wash and condition every other day, and put on deoderant. And that's about it.

I'm 40, short, fat, and just literally don't care what anyone else thinks. No shade on any woman that enjoys grooming or pampering herself, but if you don't like it and don't want to, there's no reason you have to.