It's a courtacy thing for me. If you ghost me like that, you're off my list forever. Because if you can't communicate in the basic setting of a chat, you probably can't vibe with me when shit goes down. So I try to do the same for others. People put themselves out there, it's hard enough without being ghosted.

The swingers' world is small and chances are if you remain active you'll bump into eachother. We had it happen. Couple contacted us, we showed faces and they ghosted. Alright, I don't care, blocked. They run into us at a party and see us have fun on the dancefloor and the magic we are, the long faces when they realised they had 0 chance after that...