I do most of the parenting due to my husband's job so I guess I'm a little too sensitive to things. Plus, I always have that fear my child won't be accepted. I think that's why I posted on here to get a rational answer regarding the situation. Like, was I thinking clearly? Or did I react appropriately? I ask my family and they usually always agree because that's what family does. I want to make good decisions for my child. I also want her happy and if she gets sad I feel for her. I wasn't mean to the dad and the discussion I had with him wasn't long. He didn't say too much as I was leaving. It was super short. I feel worse now based on what others said cause I feel like I am really at fault.