I told my bf there’d be no sex for 3 weeks and then we’d see if he’s capable of actually pleasuring me during sex and if not it’d be another 3 weeks.

I’ve been with this man for an entire year, begged him for that entire year to do please just make sex feel like the intimate shit I was promised it would be when i was protecting my stupid ass virginity for this man, every time he says he’ll do more next time or try harder next time to make it feel better. THEN I just find out, A YEAR LATER, he doesn’t even like going down on women, he never had any intention of touching me the “next time” and yet he has the AUDACITY TO BREAK, THROW, HIT, AND YELL AT ME IF I REFUSE TO TOUCH HIS ASS WHEN HE HAS SHIT ON IT.

Bro I come to this sub for support and understanding in my actions and feelings, not to be called a narcissist as if I’m living with my mom again. Go fuck yourself.

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