I told one of my guy friends about my sexual assault, he made it about him.

Like I said to another guy who said the same thing.

This is the real world, I’d forever be known as the girl who got a guy fired, even if my co workers and friends did believe me their would always be doubt and gossip, I really don’t need that in my life.

Not to mention the guys friends and family, they would take his side, for my own sanity I’d need to delete my social media, it’s not uncommon for girls to get witch-hunted in these situations, it would completely turn my life upside down.

It’s not just about social pressure and the way people like me are treated, it’s about having a job where I’m respected, if I did go to HR every time a customer made me feel uneasy, I’d be hated, not just hated I’d be gone by now.

Women reporting assault it’s easy or simple.

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