I don’t see why people are so concerned with what’s in someone’s pants. You want to identify as female? Cool. Do you want to be more masc one day and fem the next? Also cool. Does it make you happy? That’s great!
I know people who think it’s appalling when someone identifies as male and wears nail polish or makeup. If someone is doing something that makes them happy (that’s not something like committing mass m*rder or burning down peoples houses) then why is it a problem. These people dye their gray hair to make themselves happy so why is this any different?
No one should have to go through life hating who they are. Life is hard and we all need as much support as we can get