I think slur is really a broad term that can be used to describe many things. The word NERD can be considered a slur. So if we take the definition along the lines of the n word or fggot, it just isn't a slur. I would say trnny is a slur sure. But traps are real. You are just defining them lol. It's like saying the word black is a slur. If I Grant you trans women are women(ima a gender abolishment believer) even than you could still be trapped bc you went in thinking you were going to fuck a woman without a penis and she has one. Where it becomes problematic is when you say are traps GAY. Bc ur calling trans women guys. So just to be clear. Traps by itself isn't a slur but when you add it's gay. That's when its derogatory