Trolls, I angrily walked out on my boyfriend and now I'm not sure if that was the right thing to do or if it'll lead to us breaking up and I'm filled with uncertainty.

Ha! Oh, to be on the other side of the popcorn.

I'm so sorry for the novel. Relationship problems are never short, are they?

TLDR: I think I turned a molehill into a mountain and I don't know how to get back.

It started over the weekend. Also, to preface this, I feel mostly ridiculous and irrational. Slight background, we've been dating 7 months and I'm about to move.in with him at the end of this month and I think this is our first fight. So, on days I don't see him, communication from/with him is pretty nonexistent. He gets sucked into his games on his phone and is otherwise generally not attached to his phone the way I am.

I'd hardly heard from him over the weekend and he mentioned his brother was in town and they were going to see a movie.he knew I wanted to see with him. He invited me, but he also knew full well I wouldn't be able to go. So I'm upset over this. I stew for most of the day. He finally gets back to me and his message was like an after thought and I told him that's how he made me feel. He said we'd talk about it in person, which should have been tonight.

Fast forward to tonight when the bf comes and I see him for all of 2 minutes before he leaves to go out for the evening with his brother. He didn't invite me or give me an idea of when he'd be back. By the way, his brother is staying at the bf's apt. and I'd warned my bf that I wouldn't really be socializing with his brother too much because 1. I don't know him that well and social interaction with people I don't know makes me really uncomfortable and 2. I wanted alone time. I assumed when my bf home, I'd be socializing with both of them and everything would be fine, but then I was ignored. And this is where I'm not sure if I'm being ridiculous in feeling upset. If he wanted to spend alone time with his brother, that's fine, but I wish that would've been conveyed to me before I decided to go see him.

So I left after the bf left and I didn't tell him I was leaving and now I feel guilty. I didn't want to stay at him place and stew and then say hurtful things to him when he got home. I feel like I turned a molehill into mountain at some point at don't know how to get down. Plus I feel crazy.

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