Listen to some great hip hop music, and remember that humans create the notion of romance, and cheating. We as free thinkers have the will to remove our vulnerabilities to these concepts by simply understanding they don’t exist. All of those “yucky” feelings we feel on the inside is just those chemical imbalances within our bodies caused by a host of things....... none of it exists.

Since we have made up these ideas of monagamy, and romance, we hold eachother to these unrealistic standards that humans aren’t naturally inclined to. The way I view it, if a spouse cheats on someone, that doesn’t necessarily mean they “love them less”, or anything negative. However, society has taught use through many many years, decades that “cheating” == [insert negative concept], when in fact, since we give definition to it, we can have it mean whatever we want....

All in all, it may not seem easy, but life goes on my friend. We are as strong as we mentally wish to be, and we are weak as we mentally allow ourselves to be. Much love