The majority of the guys on trp have recently been divorced/cheated on/fiscally raped by women. The other part of the anger comes from realising the disney romance they got sold on doesn't exist. Hence you get the anger phase: raw hated and anger spewed toward all women and even more at themselves.
Guys typically do not have the same ability process emotions or an emotional support system in place; which women tend to have. So when things go bad we have to hit something it doesn't matter if it's a person, the gym or even a scarecrow scapegoat stereotype (think awalt). You just have to let it out and trp is about the only place you can go do that without judgment.
Do we say really stupid as things? Of course we're men it's a package deal. Realize everyone has a history and ego don't listen to words they say. those truly are meaningless. Look at actions, if you can get past the bravado and false arrogance and see the actions of the guys on trp you'll realize we're pretty fucking awesome.
I found trp after a decade long relationship went south. I had been trying to polish that turd so long when I finally looked up and actually saw things for what they were I was devastated. In the first 6 months i lost my house and dog to my ex. Grandfather got diagnosed with cancer and died were close. Then I crashed a couple cars because I had been only been sleeping about 2 hours a night for 6 months: stress. I drank way too much alcohol and spent 2-3 hours a day at the gym 6 days a week because that was the only thing that made me feel anything.
After that first 6 months I found trp and i realised something very important. I wasn't alone. Other people were going through the same struggle. That was the turning point for me having the outlet for all that anger at the person who stole everything, the anger at myself for being such a gullible dolt. I personally never felt the need to talk shit on trp, just lurking and reading other people's experiences was enough confrontation and validation to my own that it lifted most of the weight of a decade i had completely wasted.
I quit drinking, I worked out smarter. I slept finally. I read the Bible and the Analects of Confucius and some machiavellian philosophy. I taught myself how to weld, play the guitar, and found myself again. I moved to two different cities then got sued by my ex (I have a pro revenge post on that that gives more of the story im not proud but it was justice) it was years ago now. I took that in stride told my asshole boss to fuck himself in writing twice then made him give me a %30 raise.
I rebuilt my confidence, and trp was a very real step in that process for me. I personally am more of a married red pill guy then trp so I found a wonderful woman we've been together years now. I'll get a prenup when I get married, but only because I've decided to make logical decisions not emotional ones. I trust her completely.
The bottom line: trp, as filled with hatred and venom as it can be is for a very specific audience. The guys who didn't get screwed over at the end of their relationship don't find their way there because they didn't need to. Either they still believe in the fairy tale or they were better able to cope with their loss. I've heard it said that men are romantics pretending to be realists and women are realists pretending to be romantics and I think that's at the root of it all. If you pop the bubble of romance some of us envelop ourselves in and we see reality for what it is.... You get trp i guess. You don't like it, neither does tbp; but you are outsiders to it all. All you can see is the venom and hatred, i really don't blame you for disliking it based on your perspective but there are two sides to every coin.