We should not attribute the negative effects of outdated gender roles only to men. Both women and men should take equal responsibility for their actions and how they affect one another be it in social settings, in court, in education, in industry, in entertainment, in politics, at birth, and in raising the next generation. Both men and women are affected negatively by social stigma and discrimination. It puzzles me why so many choose to only discuss one side of the story (not just talking about some feminists, but also mra), and ultimately it doesn't only undermine the integrity of the people spurting about things like toxic masculinity, but brings us no closer to gender equality.