I really like the spectrum idea - I don't see myself getting in an actual relationship with another woman, even experimenting a little bit would make me uncomfortable, I have trouble seeing other women as potential mates and yet I know an attractive woman when I see one and I'd lie if I said I only ever had feelings towards good-looking men (whether in real life or on TV/movies)

I have some friends who dread being touched by another woman even accidently, some who have no problem with things that could be misinterpreted as being in a relationship (like playing with your hair, holding hands, getting too close way too quickly), some who don't seem to care whether it's with a woman or a man as long as it clicks.

I guess someone who's truly bisexual would be split 50-50 or 60-40 while the majority of us is 90-10 or 99-1 but I also agree with the idea that it's easier for women to say so, nobody bats an eye if you say a girl is beautiful but I've never heard a man say another man was good-looking, I feel like he'd get some weird looks.