So let’s say you want kids but he doesn’t, how will you solve this without breaking up? Will you force him to be a parent, will he be a parent just to please you, will you not be a parent to please him?

I honestly understand why people would be cautious if someone gets engaged after 4 months of LDR. Me and my so got married after 2.5 years and had lived together for 1.5 but some people still think we went to fast. You don’t know anyone well enough to know you’ll be happy to spend the rest of your life with someone after 4months, but I’m really happy it worked out for you and that you still love each other!

This feeling of love is only a small part of an adult relationship in my opinion, there has to be a lot more that falls into place before deciding to get married.