“The Truth Hurts”

Here's some honest advice: if you're 28 and an adult with some degree of life experience don't date 20 year olds. Full stop. You think they're confusing, yet you claim dating older or women you actual age isn't "for you". Well, perhaps ask yourself if you're not the one who's confused. You're 28, so dating up to 19yrs old is CREEPY my man, no other way to put it. Figure out what you want to do but chances are, if you insist on dating people with less life experience than you, you're never finding a proper partner, it's just a fact. Look for someone who shares your common interests. If it just so happens the "right one" for you is 4-5yrs younger than so be it. That's just life, nobody can fault that, but don't chase children. And if you do, don't complain for appearing as a creepy / niceguy dude and or about the fact they're "confusing" when they're just much younger than you and have a different mentality. The first two lines of your comment honestly makes me think you're not even looking for actual advice but rather validation for your weird choices.

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